Rusty Ferguson

I’m an American expat living in the north of Cebu Province of the Philippines and having the time of my life!

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  1. terry

    Yes Rusty you are right with filipino time. We still have some filipinos practicing that in the US. I do not know if they do it with their bosses but everytime we have a party..let’s say… the party is at 1:00 pm…people come at 1:30 or much later. I sometimes kid them…you gonna be late for your own funeral… that gets laughter but tehy will be still late for parties the next time … it is so frustrating :(

    1. Rusty Ferguson

      Awww Terry, just relax. Does it really matter?

      That’s what the Philippines has taught me, what really matters. Well I’ve had several life stories on that but the Philippines is re-enforcement. Just have fun without them.

      Gets hard to think that way in the US, I know, I was caught up in that rat race and its good you teach your students to be punctual, so you can’t let it go completely. I also don’t think there’s any reason to get frustrated, people are just people, doing the best they can.

      I use to be so punctual, I was always early. I hated late, drove me nuts. Now I’ve not bothered to get my gold watch fixed. LOL

      There were so many things I let get to me I could do nothing about. Trying to control our own lives is mostly futile, controlling someone else’s might be insane. Not that we don’t all do it. Its hard nt too do that but learning not to control others is far more fruitful than trying to control them, Getting upset at them is a control thing.

      Then again, I’m always rushing Jessie so I’ve certainly not mastered it.

      1. terry

        Wow, you are becoming a filipino huh :) Good for you…but as they say…when you are in Rome be a Roman…so that’s why I want to be punctual and expecting toher people to be punctual as well. Rusty this is the US, not PI. I do not want to be fired because of my bad Filipino habit. Filipinos here are know to be really good at their jobs, no matter what type. I wish the same holds true with people back home, the politicians should be good at their jobs….Ahhh…election time is coming. Have you experienced election in the Philipp[ines. I do not know how many will be killed, how many will cheat, and how much each vote will cost now, etc.
        Isn’t that frustrating (again) that’s how I view Filipino elections. I grew up with it, and it has always been like this.
        There are some areas that families are taking over years after years, without changing or giving a chance to the good candidate. This must be a good business..huh.

        I hope you can have a topic on election without repercussions. but, PI is a free country-we have freeedom of speech, religion, etc.except the there are people who will silence you….ha..ha…ha…

        1. Rusty Ferguson

          You should take part of your culture with you to the USA and they can learn from you as you can learn from them.

          But, some appointments people are expected to be on time, even here. If you have a flight, best not be late. If one has an appointment with BI, you should be very early to show respect and not risk being late.

          For a party? One is not required to be there and the only person you can ever control is yourself. And regarding ourselves, we can only control so much. So much of what we do is guided by our subconscious. By default, we can’t be easily aware of our subconscious

          Work is one thing, party is another and the only person you can get there on time is you. Makes life much less stressful when I don’t worry about others.

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